We all dream of a fairytale. To live happily ever after with someone who will make our dreams come true. To rescue us and make us happy. Then the dream shatters and you are faced with the harsh and devastating reality that nobody will come to rescue and save you. It is only YOU who can save yourself. The realization that we are responsible for our own health and happiness is a rude awakening because now there is no one to blame anymore.
True emotional freedom is experienced when you release the judgements and expectations you have of others. We have to become our own “knight in shining armour.” I found true healing and discovered inner peace when I took control of my own life and created my own reality. I made a conscious choice to commit to myself and to stop believing the lies and illusions that I held onto for dear life. I changed the patterns of my behaviour and paid attention to the people I allowed in my space. I took back the permission I gave to others to disrespect me. I stopped blaming and started changing.